The Victim Mentality has puzzled me for many years. I always asked why kids, who used to be bubbly, energetic and full of life became depressed teenagers and irresponsible adults. And this is happening everywhere. What process are we going through or a system do we have in place that we are getting this type of results? Because if we can just figure out what this process or system is, we can change it and thereby changing the outcome. That system is the Victim Drama Triangle.